What makes students who have taken this program so successful?

Success here isn’t just about strategy, it’s about somatic capacity . Our students succeed because they use energetic practices to heal their nervous systems, making it safe for their bodies to hold more wealth and pleasure. When you shift your internal frequency, the external results follow naturally.

What if I am not clear on what I want for my life?

That is the perfect place to start! Clarity is a result of this program, not a prerequisite. We help you peel back the layers to discover your own voice. You don’t need the answers today; you just need to be willing to find them.

How much time will it take to participate?

This program is designed to move you out of "the grind" and into pleasure-led productivity . By healing the need to overwork, you actually get your time back. These somatic practices are efficient—they release more in minutes than hours of mental "figuring it out" ever could.

What if I'm not comfortable sharing in a group?

I completely respect that. You can be a "quiet observer" and still get 100% of the value. Sharing is always optional, and your journey is yours alone. The community is there for support, but only if and when you want it.

How is my privacy protected?

Your safety is our priority. We provide a curated, private environment where your journey stays within the container of the program. We use secure platforms so you can focus entirely on your transformation with total peace of mind.

How is this different from therapy?

Talk therapy stays in the mind; Soft Rich Woman goes into the body and soul . While therapy helps you understand your past, our somatic practices actually release the stored tension and trauma from your cells. We focus on inner healing through pleasure rather than just rehashing old stories.

What if I've already done therapy and it didn't work?

You can’t talk your way out of a nervous system pattern. If therapy felt like it hit a wall, it’s because the "issue" is stored energetically, not just cognitively. This program uses somatic release to move the blocks that talk therapy simply can’t reach.

Is this program going to save my marriage or relationship?

When you heal your inner world and prioritize your own pleasure , you become magnetic. As you shift your energy from lack to abundance, the people around you—including your partner—naturally respond to your new radiance. Inner healing is the most powerful way to "re-tune" any relationship.

Can I join another time?

You could, but delaying your healing is a form of self-abandonment. Every day you wait is another day spent in a stressed nervous system. If you feel the pull toward more pleasure and ease now, it’s because your body is ready for the release today.

For Couples That Want Connection to Accelerate Their Dreams

THE 40 MOST POWERFUL QUESTIONS

THAT CREATE DEEP

EMOTIONAL CONNECTION

WITH YOUR PARTNER

...now ALL in 1 DECK!

The Connexus Couples Card Deck:

The 40 Cards That Keeps Your Relationship Thriving

The Connexus Couples Card Deck:

The 40 Cards That Keeps Your Relationship Thriving

WHAT OTHER COUPLES ARE SAYING ABOUT THESE POWERFUL CARDS

"It was such an amazing time with my hubby"

"Obsessed! So nice to not have to grab my phone for something like this, when the phone is half the problem! Did the cards the other night and it was such an amazing time with my hubby."

Katie Carroll

"It's a great tool for strengthening communication and staying connected."

"Some cards focus on fun activities, while most encourage open-ended discussions that really get you talking."

Derick C.

"This is a very well thought out deck that gets conversation flowing and helps you learn more about each other."

"As new parents, it's hard to find time to connect in our relationship. I decided to try these cards out. I think it is well worth the price for a date night."

"I appreciate that it has videos linked to make things easier as well."

Meli

If you had a way to improve the communication with your partner, ...would you do it?

Think about it:

Whether it’s a late-night fight, a snappy comment , an not so obvious criticism or a well meant compliment or a loving hug or touch, everything is communication.

So, why is it that 95% of the couples, married or not, have poor communication skills and over 50% of marriages result in a divorce?

Because they have not learned the secret to deeper communcicaton that actually works.

In fact, the NUMBER ONE problem Women come to us with is:

“How can I communicate with my husband so he ACTUALLY LISTENS and understands what I want AND takes action?”

Sound familiar?

Or, when Men come to us and they ask: "Where the heck is that secret button that gets me to read her mind?"

Have you ever had a conversation with your partner and wondered why he or she didn't listen?

This is why the WAY in which we communicate matters. The problem of course is that most of us never learned how to communicate effectively... especially when it comes to navigating expectations, desires, withholds, obligations, finances, future plans and sex & intimacy.

In this deck, you’ll discover 40 tried-and-tested questions and practices that, when you apply them, instantly created a deeper bond.

You can shuffle the deck to pull one card at a time. Or when you want to focus on a specific area, pick a card from one of the five categories.

And whenever you want to know more about one of the cards, simply scan the QR-code for a more detailed video.

Take it on the go. Put it on the coffee table or keep it on your night stand.

This Relationship Tool Kit is yours for Life...

The 5 Connexus Categories

Foundation Builders

Restore the trust that makes everything else possible.

These questions create the safety to be honest, vulnerable, and fully yourself with each other, even if trust has been chipped away over time.

And you don’t need to be in a broken relationship to strengthen the foundation you’re building everything else on.

Rapid Revelations

Go beyond the conversations you’ve had a hundred times.

These questions help you uncover new layers of each other, building on the trust you’ve created and opening conversations you may never think to have on your own.

Because no matter how long you’ve been together, there is always more of your partner to discover.

Grand Vision

Create a future together that you can’t wait to live.

These questions get you aligned around what you actually want from your relationship, family, lifestyle, money, adventures, and future, turning vague dreams into a shared vision that inspires action.

You don’t need to have it all figured out, you just need to start dreaming in the same direction.

Sensory Sync

Get out of your heads and back into your bodies.

These playful intimacy and sensory practices help you create more presence, attraction, pleasure, and connection while elevating the energy you bring into the bedroom. And no, they don’t all lead to sex, because intimacy gets a whole lot better when there’s no pressure for it to go anywhere.

Quick Connect

Stay curious about each other in the middle of real life.

These easy daily questions create small moments of connection even when work, kids, schedules, and responsibilities are taking over. You don’t need another hour-long relationship conversation, sometimes five intentional minutes is enough to keep you from slowly drifting apart.

Why we created Connexus

Our Grand Vision with Connexus is to have happy connected playful couples & empowered families all over the world.

We believe that when couples are connected, each person feels seen & heard. When they are on a joint aligned mission then kids thrive & the whole family thrives. This creates emotionally stable conscious healthy children in the world.

From personal experience that Avani had growing up, and now from working with 100's of women & couples, we firmly believe that dysfunctional families and traumatized children happen as a result of bad communication between couples, and therefore disconnected parents.

Before we had kids, when we first started dating, because we started long distance, we noticed that little things were getting in the way of a soul connection. This is when we developed these practices about 10 years ago.

That's why we have been on a mission to activate & guide couples to take on personal transformation in their relationship & with themselves.

This card deck is our gift of connection to the world.

It is absolutely our priviledge to share this work, that so far we have only done in our private couples retreats, in a public, easy to access way!

Avani & Wouter Shahlenis

Intimacy Coaches & Energy Healers

Creators of the Connexus Card Deck

This is no fluff stuff. Connexus is for Legacy Builders

Those interested in not just a relationship.

But in building a partnership.

A home. A family. A future. A legacy.

Whether you build a legacy based in love, a business, wealth or an entire imperium.

You and your partner are what your kids see first.

How you relate to each other creates the scaffolding of how they view relationships & the world in their future.

Do they see love & growth or conflict and suppression?

Do they experience team being built or individuals being torn down?

Do they speak new ideas and creations or do they regurgitate limited thinking of scarcity and seperation?

You get to choose, and Connexus is your toolkit for that.

And the more in-sync you two are as a couple, the more you'll watch your legacy grow.

Thought Provoking, Deeper Communication

CONSIDER THIS 40 CARD DECK YOUR:

🧲 Shortcut Back to Each Other

For when life, kids, work and routines have slowly pulled you apart.

❤️5-Minute Connection Ritual

Because getting closer doesn’t require another hour-long relationship conversation.

🔥Intimacy Igniter

Get out of your heads, back into your bodies and bring more playfulness into the bedroom.

🏡Dream-Life Builder

Create a future you’re both so excited about, you can’t help but start moving toward it.

HOW TO USE YOUR BRAND NEW COUPLES CARD DECK:

Step #1:

Create a Moment together

Whether that be on a long ride, coffee on Sunday morning at home, date night or whenever you want to create more connection.

Step #2:

Pull a Card!

You can pull a random card, or you can choose from the five categories when you want to focus on a particular area of your relationship.

Step #3:

Answer the Prompt or do the Practice

As for anything in life, you can't discover something new or change something when you don't apply the wisdom given to you. Same for the cards, creating a deeper connection is only possible when you follow the prompts.

Go Deeper With

The Connexus Video Content

The cards start the conversation. The videos help you take it further.

Inside Connexus, you'll also get access to exclusive video content for Foundation Builders, Rapid Revelations, Grand Vision, and Sensory Sync.

Avani & Wouter guide you deeper into selected cards, explaining why the conversations and practices matter, what to look for, and how to get even more out of them together.

So you're not just pulling a card. You're learning how to build a stronger relationship as you use the deck.