For Couples That Want Deeper Connection that lasts a life-time
THE 40 MOST POWERFUL QUESTIONS
That Get You Past
"How Was Your Day"
...now ALL in 1 DECK!
40 cards across 5 categories, from five-minute check-ins to the conversations you've been circling for years.
A real deck you can use together offline for date night, with video guidance for the ones that go deep.
$34.99 + shipping* , risk free.
*US $5 / Canada $15 / Mexico $15 / International $25
40 cards across 5 categories, from five-minute check-ins to the conversations you've been circling for years.
A real deck you can use together offline for date night, with video guidance for the ones that go deep.
$34.99 + shipping* , risk free.
*US $5 / Canada $15 / Mexico $15 / International $25
WHAT OTHER COUPLES ARE SAYING ABOUT THESE POWERFUL CARDS
"It was such an amazing time with my hubby"
"Obsessed! So nice to not have to grab my phone for something like this, when the phone is half the problem! Did the cards the other night and it was such an amazing time with my hubby."
Katie Carroll
"As new parents, it's hard to find time to connect in our relationship. I decided to try these cards out. I think it is well worth the price for a date night."
"As new parents, it's hard to find time to connect in our relationship. I decided to try these cards out. I think it is well worth the price for a date night."
"This is a very well thought out deck that gets conversation flowing and helps you learn more about each other."
"I appreciate that it has videos linked to make things easier as well."
Meli
"It's a great tool for strengthening communication and staying connected."
"Some cards focus on fun activities, while most encourage open-ended discussions that really get you talking."
Derick C.
If you had a way to improve the communication with your partner, ...would you do it?
Think about it:
Whether it’s a late-night fight, a snappy comment, a not so obvious criticism or a well meant compliment or a loving hug or touch, everything is communication.
So, why is it that many couples, married or not, have poor communication skills and wonder why things don't work in their relationship?
Because they have not learned the secret to deeper communication that actually works.
In fact, the NUMBER ONE problem Women come to us with is:
“How can I communicate with my husband so he ACTUALLY LISTENS and understands what I want AND takes action?”
In every romantic relationship we all have our own agendas and desires, but many couples fail to communicate them effectively. And that can lead to resentment and regrets, which kills the intimacy.
This is why communication matters so much.
We believe that open communication solves even the most difficult situations and can propel the dreams and desires you have, individually and as a couple.
The problem is that most of us never learned how to be communicate the things that are close to our heart... especially when it comes to navigating expectations, desires, withholds, obligations, financial needs & aspirations, future plans and sex & intimacy.
In this deck, you’ll discover 40 tried-and-tested questions and practices that, when you apply them, instantly creates a deeper bond that allows you to communicate fully and both people feel seen, loved and cherished.
You can shuffle the deck to pull one card at a time. Or when you want to focus on a specific area, pick a card from one of the five categories.
And whenever you want to know more about one of the cards, simply scan the QR-code for a more detailed video.
Take it on the go. Put it on the coffee table or keep it on your night stand.
This Relationship Tool Kit is yours for Life...
The 5 Connexus Categories
Foundation Builders
Restore the trust that makes everything else possible.
These questions create the safety to be honest, vulnerable, and fully yourself with each other, even if trust has been chipped away over time.
And you don’t need to be in a broken relationship to strengthen the foundation you’re building everything else on.
Rapid Revelations
Go beyond the conversations you’ve had a hundred times.
These questions help you uncover new layers of each other, building on the trust you’ve created and opening conversations you may never think to have on your own.
Because no matter how long you’ve been together, there is always more of your partner to discover.
Grand Vision
Create a future together that you can’t wait to live.
These questions get you aligned around what you actually want from your relationship, family, lifestyle, money, adventures, and future, turning vague dreams into a shared vision that inspires action.
You don’t need to have it all figured out, you just need to start dreaming in the same direction.
Sensory Sync
Get out of your heads and back into your bodies.
These playful intimacy and sensory practices help you create more presence, attraction, pleasure, and connection while elevating the energy you bring into the bedroom. And no, they don’t all lead to sex, because intimacy gets a whole lot better when there’s no pressure for it to go anywhere.
Quick Connect
Stay curious about each other in the middle of real life.
These easy daily questions create small moments of connection even when work, kids, schedules, and responsibilities are taking over. You don’t need another hour-long relationship conversation, sometimes five intentional minutes is enough to keep you from slowly drifting apart.
SOME CARDS TAKE YOU EVEN DEEPER
Selected Connexus cards include a QR code that unlocks exclusive video guidance from Avani & Wouter.
Sometimes a question is enough. Sometimes you want more guidance to understand why it matters, what to look for, and how to explore it together.
Pull the card. Scan the QR code. Go deeper together.
“Yeah… but my partner is going to think this is cheesy.”
We get it.
Maybe your partner isn't the “let's work on our relationship” type.
Maybe you can already picture the eye roll when you tell them you bought a couples card deck.
That's exactly why Connexus doesn't have to start with a big, deep relationship conversation.
Don't schedule an hour.
Don't start with the deepest card in the deck.
Just pull one card.
Start with a Quick Connect over coffee. Pull one in the car. Bring one on date night.
Or hand him the deck and say:
“Pick one.”
That's it.
Some cards are fun. Some take five minutes. Some get you thinking. And some unexpectedly open up a conversation you may never have thought to have.
No pressure. No “we need to talk.” No relationship homework.
Just a different question than “How was your day?”
Our 30-Day Connection Guarantee
Use it for 30 days. Put it to the test in your actual relationship.
We believe that somewhere inside these 40 cards is a conversation you didn’t know you needed to have, something that helps you understand each other better, brings you closer, creates a more intimacy, or gets you dreaming together again.
If Connexus doesn’t spark at least ONE conversation worth having within your first 30 days, just email us and we’ll refund your purchase. And you keep the deck.
Why we created Connexus
Our Grand Vision with Connexus is to have happy connected playful couples & empowered families all over the world.
We believe that when couples are connected, each person feels seen & heard. When they are on a joint aligned mission then kids thrive & the whole family thrives. This creates emotionally stable conscious healthy children in the world.
From personal experience that Avani had growing up, and now from working with 100's of women & couples, we firmly believe that dysfunctional families and traumatized children happen as a result of bad communication between couples, and therefore disconnected parents.
Before we had kids, when we first started dating, because we started long distance, we noticed that little things were getting in the way of a soul connection. This is when we developed these practices about 10 years ago.
That's why we have been on a mission to activate & guide couples to take on personal transformation in their relationship & with themselves.
This card deck is our gift of connection to the world.
It is absolutely our privilege to share this work, that so far we have only done in our private couples retreats, in a public, easy to access way!
Avani & Wouter Shahlenis
Intimacy Coaches & Energy Healers
Creators of the Connexus Card Deck
This is no fluff stuff. Connexus is for Legacy Builders
Those interested in not just a relationship.
But in building a partnership.
A home. A family. A future. A legacy.
Whether you build a legacy based in love, a business, wealth or an entire imperium.
You and your partner are what your kids see first.
How you relate to each other creates the scaffolding of how they view relationships & the world in their future.
Do they see love & growth or conflict and suppression?
Do they experience team being built or individuals being torn down?
Do they speak new ideas and creations or do they regurgitate limited thinking of scarcity and separation?
You get to choose, and Connexus is your toolkit for that.
And the more in-sync you two are as a couple, the more you'll watch your legacy grow.
Thought Provoking, Deeper Communication
CONSIDER THIS 40 CARD DECK YOUR:
🧲 Shortcut Back to Each Other
For when life, kids, work and routines have slowly pulled you apart.
❤️5-Minute Connection Ritual
Because getting closer doesn’t require another hour-long relationship conversation.
🔥Intimacy Igniter
Get out of your heads, back into your bodies and bring more playfulness into the bedroom.
🏡Dream-Life Builder
Create a future you’re both so excited about, you can’t help but start moving toward it.
CREATE YOUR OWN CONNEXUS RHYTHM
There’s no right way to Connexus. Just find the rhythm that feels like you.
CREATE A MOMENT
Morning coffee. A long drive. Date night. After the kids are asleep. Whenever you find a little space to be together.
Connexus doesn’t need an appointment. Sometimes all you need is one good question.
FOLLOW YOUR CURIOSITY
Pull a card at random or choose the category that feels right in the moment.
Something playful tonight. Something deeper next week. Something intimate when the mood is right. Let your relationship lead.
COME BACK TO IT
Once a week. Every date night. Whenever you want to slow down, reconnect, or discover something new about each other.
Because the question you answer today might create an entirely different conversation six months from now.
Your relationship has its own rhythm. Make Connexus part of it.
Imagine 3 months from now...
Trust deeper. Know each other in new ways.
Feel more connected, playful and intimate.
Feel aligned and excited about your future together.
Client Testimonials
J. D.
“These practices brought us closer during one of our most disconnected seasons.”
Denni
"Things left unsaid can create resentment in a relationship and these cards help to safely have conversations about those things."
Cristina
“A more fun and effective way to grow my relationship than reading books.”
CONNEXUS COUPLES CARD DECK
Your investment: $34.99 + shipping (for a lifetime of connection)
The Card Deck that brings you closer together. One Card at a Time
US orders typically arrive within 7 business days.
Tracking provided when your order ships.
Shipping: US $5 / Canada $15 / Mexico $15 / International $25
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